Tuesday 25 January 2011

Living through Gizmos

I grew-up with the only gizmos called “Radio” and “Gramophone”. Even they were not personal. One massive piece of wood and wires, called Radio, majestically sat on a well decorated stand, waiting for programmes to be aired every morning and evening. We listened to it while performing our daily chores. Gramophone was a mechanical device, which needed frequent winding and pin changing. Buying new vinyl records, each containing two songs – one on either side, was an event much awaited in the family. Special occasions and moods would bring gramophone out of its well-preserved case. Most of my childhood leisure time was spent outdoor, playing simple games with friends. Indoor too, we hardly spent lonely hours, except when studying. Games like Chess, Monopoly, Chinese Checker, Ludo, and Caram were always handy to choose from. Reading novels was perhaps the only act of leisure performed in privacy, though enriching the power of imagination. There was ample time between two working days to relax and unwind. We had plenty of time to pick morning dew drops from the tender flower petals and catch glow-worms in the night. Group discussion on current topics near a lamp post was a norm. Summer nights were spent under stars trying to connect them into meaningful shapes. Unannounced guests were always welcome. Every turn of season was celebrated and every festival was preceded with elaborate preparations and anticipations. Bedtime stories, though funny, were able to influence dreams. We experienced life first hand in the company of people and nature. We believed in the saying, “Necessity is the mother of Invention.” But, that was many decades ago.

Now, we are constantly wired to a variety of gizmos from morning to night, sometimes even during our sleep. We spend more time on face-book than talking face-to-face. We no longer remember names, numbers and addresses because we carry them in our mobiles. We have nearly forgotten how to write with a pen, as everything we write is digital. We do not walk to our work, we telecommute. Our homes are equipped with Wi-Fi and Fiber optics to power any imaginable gizmo. We no longer open real books; they are only a click away in the digital world. We play our favourite sports in virtual reality. We meet with friends and strangers in the cyber world. We do online shopping and get home delivery. We don’t have to visit any bank or service centre, as all transactions are done online. We don’t have to visit even sacred places, as their live pictures can be seen in the comfort of our homes round the clock.

One may conclude from the above that we have gained a lot of free time through these gizmos. But, in reality, we are busier than ever. We are now in the 24X7 service culture, where day does not differ from night. We are always struggling to meet deadlines. Everything should have been done yesterday. We are communicating all the time, but hardly connecting with anyone. There is no time to stand and stare. Is this the life we wished for ourselves?

In our school days, we were always asked to write essay on a topic, “Is Science a curse or a boon?” I guess this question is still relevant. The answer is simply, “It depends on us.” Human mind cannot be stifled. Its creative force will continue to invent new things. The onus is on the user who must decide what he wants to do with it. It is like a knife. A doctor can use it to save a life, while a killer can use it to take a life. Occasional unplugging, as advocated by Susan Maushart in her recently released book (The Winter of Our Disconnect), is not the solution. It may give temporary relief, but will ultimate cause suppression and frustration. The key is in striking a balance. We must ask what is it that we ultimately want to achieve in our lives and accordingly decide what is and what isn’t to be used. If you are in the business of intricate designing, weather forecasting or celestial modeling, do use virtual reality. But, why play golf in the virtual world? Nothing in the world is as important as our own mental serenity. There is no need to assume the responsibility of running the entire world. It is like a fly sitting on the spoke of a wheel and saying it makes the wheel move. No wonder, after the current economic downturn in US, people have realized the futility of living 24x7 culture and US government is considering to cap the maximum working hours in a day.

The following couplet, in slightly modified version, sums-up my thoughts:
“Dhoop mein niklo, Chandni mein naha kar dekho
Zindagi kya hai, Gizmo ko hata kar dekho.”
[Take a walk in the sun, have a shower in the moonlight
What is life, see after removing gizmo.]

Monday 17 January 2011

Party is not yet over

All those who didn’t have acute sense of humour must have been depressed after reading Bikram Vohra’s piece (“End of the party”, Wknd. 7 January, 2011), especially the last bit. He has given a number of yardsticks to measure when your party is over or when you are no longer in demand. These situations are real and can happen to anyone. Let’s face it. We do become happy when someone appreciates our look, when boss does not ignore, when friends are always calling, when we are centre of attraction in a gathering, when we have many invitations to choose from, when colleagues seek advice, when family members adore, when people are queuing-up to meet, when exquisite gifts are received, and when we get what we desire even without asking. But there is a problem. None of these things is under our control. They may not happen and would definitely not last forever. Is it then worth pursuing such happiness which is fleeting and filled with the fear of losing? Should we live on others’ opinions and approvals? If yes, then the party was over a long time ago. Worse still, it never started.

Effective yardsticks for real progress are always inward, never external. An organisation scales greater heights with time when it keeps raising its own bar of performance and customer satisfaction. It doesn’t wait for a push from its competitors or recognition from some external bodies. Similarly, an individual’s personal and professional growth can be measured by his own internal benchmarks. Did I start the day by thanking Almighty for gifting another day full of opportunities and possibilities? Did I give my 100% to my work whatever it is? Did I extend a helping hand to my colleagues at work? Did I share something with someone today? Did I do something, however small, for my chosen goal in life? Did I express my gratitude to the nature for using its bounty without causing any damage? Did I go out of my way to bring smiles on someone’s lips? Am I living within my means and not on borrowed resources? Have I learnt something new today in my professional field? Did I learn any lesson from today’s mistakes? Did I say sorry to the one whom I hurt by my behaviour? Did I carry a clear conscience to the bed and sleep within minutes of hitting the pillows? They are all within our control and doable. Happiness arising from these small acts only grows with time. Recognition and rewards become incidental. Life becomes a celebration and this party never ends.