Vikram Bohra’s piece, “The NRI Nod of Dissent” (Wknd. 20th Aug 2010) humorously presented nodding nuances of Indians. True, it is confusing when you see one shaking his head from left to right and the other from up to down, you are not sure who is saying ‘yes’ and who is saying ‘no’. However funny or frustrating this may appear, it is extremely difficult, if not impossible, to change such aspects of body language. If one spoken language can acquire multiple accents from different parts of the world, then what chance we have to standardize various body languages that are so deeply rooted in their respective cultures? And, why should we even try to standardize? Isn’t variety the spice of life? Wouldn’t it be better to understand different accents and body languages rather than try to change them?
When we understand a body language, we also gain insight of the related culture. Although we are all humans, each one of us communicates differently, as if each is from a different planet. Most, if not all, interpersonal conflicts are rooted in the misunderstanding of each other’s view points. Every language, however perfect and refined, has inherent limitations that may distort any communication. Hence, it is vital to first connect with the other person’s mind through unbiased compassionate attitude. When a harmony is thus established between two minds, any communication – even with flawed language – will succeed.
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