Sunday 6 September 2009

Happiness within

I would like to pose two fundamental questions: what is happiness and what is the role of money in our lives?

Happiness, I believe, is the state of mind when there are no agitations. Now, what gives rise to agitation? Isn’t it our own making? Tempted by the sight of something, we create a desire within, which in turn disturbs our otherwise calm mind. When the desire gets fulfilled, the mind returns to its original state of calmness. We say we have experienced happiness, as if happiness resided in the thing we desired. But this happiness lasts so long as the next desire has not arisen.

In her famous book, Atlas Shrugged, Ayn Rand defines money as a “tool of exchange” between those who produce certain goods and those who want the goods. “Not an ocean of tears, not all the guns in the world can transform those pieces of paper in your wallet into the bread you will need to survive tomorrow”, she says.

We part with money for the things we value more than money. Hence, so long as we want something from the world, we will need money. Money, in this context, gives a sense of future happiness. However, since we don’t have a fixed list of wants‚ we can’t decide how much money is enough. And the wild goose chase goes on, all through life.

Stephen Crane gives a handy recipe for happiness. It is to rid yourself of your notion of your rights. To get the taste of life we must approach it as a beggar at the king's court. If we are despised, what’s more natural? If we are feasted, what a marvel! Thus, we may become happy here and now, with or without money.

3 comments:

Noor said...

Can I pose a counter question? Does the Absence of Sadness = Happiness? Or is it something beyond?

Money is like a hammer in the hands of a carpenter who has to hammer in a dozen nails...Really useful if he hits the nails..really painful if he hits his fingers..

Noor (nooruddin.ahmed@gmail.com) said...

All the best

Raj Jhajharia said...

Hi Noor,
Thanks again for your thoughtful comments.

I think 'sadness' is related to 'happiness' just as 'darkness' is related to 'light'. Light is real, darkness is a perceptional illusion dependent upon the limitations of human eyes (bats can see in the so called darkness).

Similarly, unbroken happiness is the original nature of our soul. However, when we dis-associate with our soul and identify with our equipments (body, mind and intellect), we are tossed around by the demands of these equipments. Fulfilment of any demand briefly put us in contact with our soul whereby we experience momentary happiness. But, soon other demands arise and we are back into the realms of illusory sadness.

Hammer as a metaphor for money is interesting. I understand that there is a purpose in hitting the nails.