Tuesday 21 July 2020

Regaining Mind’s Control


Imagine that you own a house in another city where you do not live. This house is kept vacant under the care of some part-time person hired by you. A very good friend of yours want to visit that city. You offer him your house to stay and write a note to the caretaker to allow him there. He goes there and presses the doorbell. A hefty fellow comes out and stares at him. Your good friend gives him your note. But he tears the note into pieces and barks at him to get lost as that house belongs to him and he does not know who you are. It turns out that your house has been taken over by a local hooligan in your absence and you have no control over him.

This is the situation of our mind. We have left our mind unattended for a very long time. During this time, thoughts prompted by nasty desires have accumulated and taken control of our mind. Now when we want to entertain a spiritual thought in our mind, it is not allowed to enter, and we don’t seem to have any control over our mind. Even worse, we don’t have control over our senses which are continuously tempted by a variety of things and beings in the world. No amount of collecting spiritual thoughts and attending Satsang seem to help.

To cope with such a situation, we need to start with strengthening our Intellect, which will work like a tiny hook (ankush) used to control a huge elephant. Intellect can be strengthened by reading/listening works of higher values, including spiritual texts, and reflecting on them through sincere inquiries. As the conviction on higher values in the life deepens, intellect gains power. With this subtle power of intellect, we need to train the mind slowly by instilling new habits. We may use WOOP (make a Wish, visualize the Outcome, identify Obstacles and Plan ways to remove the obstacles when they appear) technique, among others, to achieve this. Simultaneously, we need to gradually withdraw our senses from their objects of temptations. This practice must be carried out consistently according to one’s capacity. With time we will gain control over our mind and senses. We can, then, direct them towards our intended goals in life.


Watch WOOP explanation

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